Pregnant With Twins & He Left Me For 20 Year Old

by Manda
(Texas)

We've been together for 11 years, married for 8. We have a 3 year old and I'm currently pregnant with twins. My husband left me 17 weeks ago for a 20 year old girl he claims to be in love with (he is 32).

I choose to show him kindness, love, compassion and forgiveness. But I am always met with anger and hate. He has accused me of trapping him, being a horrible wife and trying to sabotage his life. We found out I was 6 weeks pregnant 4 weeks after we separated. My sweet God worshiping husband is so out of character, he begged me to get an abortion. He refuses to look at these babies as blessings and signs from God, but sees them as an evil ploy to keep him with me and miserable.

Family and friends think I'm crazy, but I continue to love him the way the Lord would love me if I sinned against him. I pray for my husband not to come back to me, but to return to God in his weakness. To surrender himself. All aspects of his life are falling apart, except for his relationship with the girl, so he clings tighter. At this point there is no winning him back or making him see the light on my own.

I ask you all that you pray with me, that God may move him. Return his heart and affection not to me, but to God. And if it is God's will, my husband's heart will belong to his wife and kids once again. Amen.

I pray with all of you women and men who have lost your spouse to evil. I pray that God restore what has been lost. But until then, I pray for your comfort and strength.

Any encouragement or suggestions would be most appreciated.

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Feb 26, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		He Said He Only Loves Me Because I'm The Mother Of His Kids.
by: Manda B

My husbands's moods go from sending me flowers to telling me he wishes I would have aborted our twins. Even when he is kind to me (which is a huge victory that i am grateful to the Lord for!!) he still insists that if he were to come home he would always wonder if the 20 year old girl was the one who got away.That he has a biochemical connection with her and he cares more about common interests with her than making things work with me and our 3 kids. He says he's deeply in love with her. He only loves me as the mother of his children.

I stay in prayer and have hope that the sever mood swings are the battles between good and evil in him. I have faith that God joined us together and would never send my husband a 20 year old girl to chose between. I pray for the stronghold to be broken and for the lust and false love to catch fire and burn to ash. I pray that the love he speaks of for her is a lie. A lie that will be canceled, in the name of Jesus Christ.

I find myself needing more strength than I have. My pregnancy hormones make the sorrow I feel unbearable at times. I ask the lord for strength to continue my prayers and dedication to my marriage and family. I'm fighting with all I have to give and I know God fights on my behalf. God, please carry me when I am too weak.

If one of you has a suggestion for prayer, I am always listening. Anything supportive or helpful will be much appreciated. I pray for all of you going through similar situations as well. May God be with you.
Feb 11, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		The Prayers Are Of God Who Cannot Fail.
by: Osita

I know God is faithful. He'll yet perfect all that concerns you.

I urge you to continue to pray persistently until you arrive...and you will!
Feb 11, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		These Prayers Are Awesome!
by: Manda B

***Update***
Thank you to all the people who have read my story and who are praying.

I bought the ebook and have been praying a specialized 5 point prayer daily, 2 times between the hours of 12-3.00 am and whenever the spirit hits me (which is often). I have also been praying some specific prayer points Osita has sent.

I have seen a change in my husband!In just one week!! He has apologized to some of my family members for hurting me, he wanted to buy me a maternity blouse, he went to our daughter's first dance class, he told me I "looked good", he's finally agreed to come to my doctors appointment where we find out the sex of the baby. he tells me he loves me daily.

He still says he isn't "in love" with me. He said he "wasn't sure staying married was the best thing for him." I pray that the progress continues and by the time our twins are born he won't be able to walk away from us like he planned.

I have days where I do more crying than anything. Days where I feel defeated. But I stay true to prayer. I will not give up.

Anyone who would like to pray with me, please do. I pray for your comfort and marital success too. God is good.
Feb 04, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		I'm Going Through Marital Challenges Too
by: Anonymous

God is working on my husband and marriage troubles too but I will pray over you and him. I know it's tough but I've been praying for 10months. We need to seek God's love and trust him with all our sutuations. Pray, pray, pray with christian music. keep in touch with how you are doing.
Feb 04, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		Be Patient
by: Anonymous

Be strong and prayerful,do not fret or give up; keep praying and never tire out,even when you get tired,do not give up...soon both your husband and his 20 year old little demon would give up on their evil schemes and go their separate ways; you would have been victorious by then.

God sees it all,it is well with you.
Feb 03, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		God Can Tune Your Husband's Heart Aright Through Prayers.
by: Osita

I commend you for standing strong for your marriage but you need to move sufficiently to recover your husband. This is very possible by targeted prayers. I will like to guide you through to victory.

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