Enjoy A Jealous Husband Everyday

The jealous husband is proof that love is alive and kicking in a marriage. If there is no iota of jealousy in the marriage then the love is suspect.

Many women delight in the show of mild jealousy by their husbands. It’s an exhilarating feeling of being desired by who matters most in your life. This is healthy and most women wish and look forward to it.

Jealousy could be in the genes or learned from parents’ or mentors’ attitudes. It could also be induced by experience of loss of some precious possession. It is a subtle fear that drives one to be protective over his treasure to stop others from taking over.

Therefore a jealous husband would strive to take exceptional care of his wife, providing all things that would make her comfortable. His biggest challenge and distress comes if he is incapable of meeting her needs in any way.

A Jealous Husband Is A Double Edged Sword

As said, jealousy is evidence of love but how come it can also destroy? It causes undue suspicion or faithlessness of the wife. This may lead to trailing, surveillance, setting traps and unfair accusations. In many cases it has led to arguments, fights, deaths and break-ups.

These are certainly not ways of projecting love.

A deeply jealous man is one lacking in self-confidence and trust of the spouse to remain faithful. The dominant thought is that she is easily ‘capturable’ by other better men.

Triggers of Jealousy

A husband is predisposed to intense jealousy:

• If she is pretty or much younger, he may feel unworthy of her

• If the wife gets attention or admiration from other men whether in the line of her duty or not

• If he is lacking in some aspect of his responsibilities to her (inability to meet her financial needs, dwindling sexual health)

• If he is ill, incapacitated or bedridden.

How to Benefit From Jealousy Energy

• The Jealous husband should be seen as blessing instead of menace. Consider the extreme  opposite of jealousy – that is a carefree and uncaring husband.

• He needs continual re-assurance of your love and affection over all other men

• Assure him that he is providing all the care and loving you need and you would like to be with him at all times.

• If he is inadequate or sick in an area, assure him that you love him (no matter what) and believe he will come around soon to his former (or better) self.

• Obey the orders of an intensely suspicious husband for your safety. You may plead for moderation or leniency later.

• Seek counsel and intervention of respected authorities, friends and relations over the attitude of your husband if it becomes uncontrollable and dangerous.

The wife of a jealous husband must live above board so as not to give credence to his suspicions and accusations.