How To Make Him Love You As You Want

If your husband is not exactly doing well in bed, you can make him love you the way you want – starting from the next time he takes you in his arms. This is so simple...I can't believe I'm even discussing it. It's actually not a secret but only few women do it and enjoy the proceeds.

Women hardly think they have a part to play in bringing out the best in their husbands during lovemaking. He's supposed to know how to do things the right way to fulfill all her fantasies and expectations?

Well, if you are in this our world you would know that only very few are in the class of the sexually fulfilled women. The rest hope and expect and wish and hiss...

Men are said to be largely selfish, insensitive, inconsiderate, hasty and all that. They are accused of not knowing what it takes to take their women to cloud nine.

The question here is, why don't you make your husband love you and blow your mind always?

The Secret Is In Your Mouth

To make him love you as you wish; tell him, show him, help him!

That's the secret, or the missing link. Excuse me, you are the best qualified to do that. After all he's your husband, it's your body and you are the one who have expectations. If you don't hit the bull's eye sooner than later, there will be consequences you won't be happy about.

Generally, no one has ever found women guilty of not talking in a relationship. If anything, they are too gifted. And one of the age-old wishes of women (as confirmed by a recent survey) is to change how their husbands listen to them. But the bulk of that much talk is not in the area of sex – a critical area of interest where men want to excel; and would gladly listen, learn...and gleefully obey.

If you as a woman do not make him love you as you want, then you expect him to do some of the following:

• Develop mind reader techniques
• Use his imagination or creativity and hope for the best
• Use knowledge from other sources: books, movies, internet, friends

None of these is as good as hearing it straight from the woman because what pleases one may be meaningless – or even repulsive – to another. Sadly, women are too inhibited to speak their desires and the men too shy to ask.

Effective Methods To Make Him Love You As You Want

Every husband wants to be the bomb lover to his wife all the time. However, with all the knowledge and sophistication in our world today, there's still a lot room for improvement in the area of sexual behavior and fulfillment.

To get the best from your husband, make him love you right using any of the mentioned avenues to communicate.

• Make chance to discuss it during normal conversation
• You can tell him just before lovemaking
• During the act you may guide him by gesture, touch or sound
• It can be after love making ( as feedback) to make the next time better

Your husband will get it wrong sometimes (have you noticed how it seems to go all wrong when you really want a good one?) unless you make him love you right by saying it the way you want. It can only be satisfying when both of you are enlightened.