Letter To Cheating Husband Gets Result

A well-crafted letter to cheating husband does not only get his attention but his respect also. This is the true last-resort weapon of the woman to confront her unstoppable adulterous husband.

Why write a letter when you live with him?

Of course letters are inferior to personal, physical interaction among couples or lovers. The use of the letter shows that the marriage is burdened and suffering. And that the normal communication is no more in place.

Particularly, letter to cheating husband will give the woman adequate opportunity to express herself:

• Completely, without interruption. In normal discussions of this nature, questions, objections, corrections or walk-outs may halt the flow of the thought.

• No breakdown due to emotional outbursts. All the weeping and cursing would have been done while writing the letter!

• Proper choice of words and language would be used. The letter could be written and re-written over a period of days (even weeks) to deliver the impact intended.

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What Not To Write In The Letter

Though writing a letter to cheating husband would naturally be an emotional exercise, it should be candid with facts which could be substantiated or defended.

 

• Do not state things that are unfounded (hearsay) no matter how helpful they may be to your case. One false claim could turn your honest letter to blackmail.

• Do not name his lover(s) except you have incontrovertible evidence that they are indeed so. Even then tread with caution and mention facts or issues and less of names of lovers.

• Do not make the letter unnecessarily lengthy. The longer your letter, the more trivialities and the less effective.

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What To Write

The major reason for writing the letter in the first place is that either you have no opportunity to fully express yourself or you are incapable of doing so for whatever reason.

If this is your first letter to him on this (there could be several in some circumstances), follow the guide below.

• Tell him why you chose to write him instead talking it over.

• Remind him of how lovely things were between you in the past, his promises of love, care and affection.

• Tell him of how you dote on him and have been faithful.

• Remind him of your last discussion on his infidelity and his response and denials then.

• Now tell him how bad things are: always away from home, no show of love and affection, no financial provisions etc.

• Tell him how you overlooked past evidences and suggestions of his unfaithfulness in the hope that they be false.

• Tell him of the undeniable proofs of his unfaithfulness which you now have. Give hints of where he was seen or implicating emails, call logs, journeys or whatever you have.

• Tell him you are hurting so much and could not continue with him the way things are.

• Finally tell him what you want from him and when. Give him conditions for you to receive him back. Or tell him to prepare for divorce.

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Deliver Your Letter

The letter to cheating husband could be hand written or typed (and signed). It could also be physical or electronic; there is no special advantage of one over the other.

The electronic letter should be typed or scanned and sent to his email box.

The physical letter should be enveloped, addressed and given direct to him or dropped in a prominent place at home for him to pick. It could also be mailed to him through regular post or courier.

His reaction to the letter would depend largely on the goal for writing and the conditions given him.