by Hellen
(South Africa)
My husband of 25 years is in continuous affairs. He is so angry and hard to me. Our communication is also nasty as he is good at name calling and reverse accusation.
The last time he had four different women including my housemaid and a woman from our church. He later stopped going to church claiming that I was busy gossiping about him and that he would leave church to give me room to gossip.
He has pride and is arrogant a smooth talker. Meetings with our pastor while he went to church didnt bear fruit.
We dont get intimate because I feel defiled and abused. I'm angry with him and our daughters are disappointed.