My Husband Ended The Affair But Doesn't Have Sex With Me.

by Molly
(United Kingdom)

I have four girls. My husband wants a boy. He is a minister in the Church. He cheated on me with a woman in my children's school for five years.

He got her pregnant three times but she miscarried. She tried to convince him for three years to get engaged to her and leave me. He refused so she gave up.

Nevertheless, My husband spent all his money on her to our detriment. He stopped paying the mortgage and car payments and gave her the money instead. She was changing her hair every two weeks, very expensive Brazilian hair.

My children did not have clothes and sometimes I could not pay for class photos. My husband would come home and tell me he wants his own room and own parlour. He did not touch me for six months. I suffered. It was a bitter experience.

Today, he claims the relationship is over but the damage has been done. We hardly have sex. The intimacy is not there like before. He likes to watch tv all the time and we don't focus on our relationship, only financials and future plans for the family. It hurts, this woman destroyed what we had!