I Want My 74 Year Old Cheating Husband Back.

by Broken Heart
(Indiana)

My husband of 30 years has another woman, we have not been communicating most of our marriage. He is a very quiet person. I am the opposite, so he can't stand me anymore.

About four years ago he started an affair. Now he has taken her on vacation to Vietnam in the winter every year, these past four years. But he has always lied that that it was on business. Now he tells people we are divorced but he has not even filed for divorce.

I confess I have been very mean and negative toward him over all this but I don't want divorce. I am so sorry for my cruelty toward him but also don't want him to leave. Please help me with prayers. He is a non churchgoing catholic. I am a born again christian and baptist. I go to a very small community church so it is difficult for support there except general prayers and unspoken requests.

We have four kids, they all want me to leave him. I am 64 he is 74. Please help!