Husband In Different Affairs With Women For Over 20 Years.

by Pamela
(New York)

I just recently found out through a text message I intercepted that my husband has been cheating on me since before we were married.

We have been together for 24 years, and this may have been for about 20 years. My husband left us to continue in his lustful and adulterous ways with four women that I am aware of. I am sure there are more. Two are married and know that he is married. Both women have been sleeping with him for four years. They are always meeting up in hotels with him.

Another he has been having on and off affairs with for 24 years. He even gave her his deceased mother's diamond ring. I wasn't good enough for his mother's ring, but apparently, the adulterous woman is.

The fourth woman has been having an affair with him for two years. All of these women meet him in hotel rooms daily, he wines and dines them. He has also taken them on business trips with him, he would tell lie and tell me he would have to work weekends only to find out Saturdays he would meet up with them at hotels around my area.

The lies never end, even as he is out of the house he will not admit to any of this, even when I see his car in one of the hotels near my gym. He keeps all his hotel keys cards in his SUV like they are trophies or something that he is proud of.

I feel broken, ashamed, torn apart and my heart feels as though it has been ripped out. He texts me and tells me he loves me and he misses me, and he tells me how beautiful I am. Which confuses me even more. I will then ask him if he is ever coming home, his response is always the same, "I don't know how to fix us." Sounds like a cop-out to me.

Not sure this one can be fixed. I need all the prayers to help reconcile. Pray the enemy will leave him and come back home.