God will not let you and I pray in vain. I have never truly prayed in vain. Your husband will return faithfully to you, and your marriage will be pleasantly refreshed. God is faithful.

The Answers To Praying Right And Winning.

I will mention some of the common questions that majority of you ask and provide the answers.

1. Do I just say the prayers as given?

The prayer points offer direction. They are the direct path to the desired result, your husband change and marriage restoration. Without direction you will not get where you need to be. But the prayer points are the raw goals, often needing some sort of development. This should not be hard since you already know what you should ask for.

Prayer points are very proper because they keep you in line with the will of God. In the past, we have seen women ask for the death of their cheating husbands, or for them to fail in business. These are not in the will of God for reconciling a marriage. If God needs to do any of those, it is His discretion; not for us to ask because it does not show a heart of love – and you need love to work with God. See the prayer points as pointing to your spiritual power-bank; it is the revealed direct path to the refreshing of your marriage.

So, you may say the prayers as they are given, but you are also expected to add your own words of desire and desperation… in the direction we have specified.

2. Some of the prayers are too short, I finish them in a couple of minutes.

This question is related to the point we just treated. The prayers are not too short, they are just right to give you the complete idea of the focus of prayers. You’ll have to develop them when you are praying them. Below these explanations, I have given a sample of the prayer number 45 (one of the shortest prayer points in the eBook), which I prayed last night for someone. I’m sure that example will enlighten you and equip you to pray the points completely.

Developing a prayer point does not mean including empty words or repeating a phrase over and over. Rather, it is pouring out your desires unto God, thereby extracting all the powers in that prayer to help you. So an undeveloped prayer point is not fully utilized. If you still need special help on how to develop particular prayers, let me know.

A very powerful way of utilizing a prayer to the fullest is praying in the Holy Ghost, also called praying in the spirit, or praying in tongues. You will see in my prayer below how I prayed in the spirit as well. You need to start on this, if you are not already enjoying it. The baptism of the Holy Ghost is a smooth gift, once you are born again, which can be received in five minutes (I will discuss this in subsequent edition of the eZine). Praying in tongues do not only make prayers exciting, but gives it more audacity and breakthrough.

3. Most of the prayers are relevant to my situation. Can I pray them all in one week?

The motive for putting all the prayers in one eBook is to select from them, not to pray all of them in one prayer session of 21 days or less.

Note this: The power of prayer points is in focus, tenacity and consistency. The more you pray a point to the exclusion of others, the more you extract all the power from it. If at a later date you start a second prayer session, you’ll be building on the strong spiritual foundation of the previous prayers. This cumulative strength will surely lead to an explosive victory for you. This is what I have experienced many times.

I expect you to pray one set of prayers to the extent that you may not need to read them again to pray the next time. Rather, it will just come from memory when you want to pray them. Also, when you pray them heartily, consistently, they get implanted in your spirit, and you find yourself even praying them in your dreams. That’s where I want you to get because once you start to pray from your spirit, you know you are really close to your answers.

4. Can I still pray other prayers from elsewhere?

It is ok if you pray other matters from elsewhere, or as your mind brings them up. In fact, you should pray for other things too, your marriage is not the only thing that’s important to God!

However, whatever prayers you make should be in addition to the ones we have agreed on. You should not abandon or substitute the prayers concerning your husband and marriage. This is because it is a prayer of agreement, which I will be praying here for you too. A prayer of agreement is one where two or more people pray the same point (see Matthew 18:19.

5. What do I do when I miss my prayers?

I understand that sometimes people miss their prayer days for one reason or the other. If this happens for a day or two, just continue the prayers and complete as scheduled. But if it goes on for three days or more, you’ll have to restart the entire prayer session from the next day. The prayers you did before the interruption should be repeated.

Do not just chant or mumble the prayers when it is obvious that you are about to miss the day’s prayer. If you do that, you will only be deceiving yourself. “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever you sow, that shall you also reap.” Galatians 6:7.

6. Which time zone do I use for my midnight prayers? I cannot make the 12 midnight prayer times.

I have come to know that the hours of 12 midnight to 3am are the most fruitful for petition prayers, personal supplication and deliverance prayers. However, some of these prayers also succeed when prayed intensely at other times.

Some people can’t pray between 12 midnight and 3am because of serious reasons of ill-health or other unavoidable duties. It should never be because of sleep. Remember prayer is a discipline!

So when you cannot pray for those reasons at midnight, find any other time of the night when you can concentrate without distraction, and pray. Your time of prayer should be the time of the location where you are. When I travel, I pray the midnight prayer in the time zone of my host country or location.

7. How do I use the scriptures you attach to the prayers?

The Bible references are witnesses that your prayer points are in the will of God for you. You are supposed to read the scriptures in context (read the whole chapter but meditate on the verse of reference). When you do this sufficiently at the onset of the prayer session, they will stick to your spirit, and you may not keep reading them each time you pray.

If you ponder on the scriptures adequately, you will be charged each time you pray, so you can mention that scripture to God (see Isaiah 41: 21 and Isaiah 1: 18). That is the job of the scriptures. You may even find other related scriptures which you include to the given and have a fuller prayer experience.

The way I prayed this prayer in my house for 15 minutes last night.

Given prayer point in the prayer eBook; “Everyone contesting my husband with me, fail and be frustrated in Jesus name.”   

Scripture preparation: I read Isaiah 8 and pondered on the verse 10.

Developed prayer:   

“Father, I thank you for the marriage covenant between me and my husband Mr…. I appreciate the privilege of being married to a wonderful man like him. Thank you, my Father, in Jesus name.